Big question: what do you love and hate about Facebook?

What I hate about Facebook is simple; it’s completely counterintuitive. I don’t happen to use it very much, so I have not been trained to accept the way things work on the site. As a result I am frustrated every time I do try to use it. In contrast, I log into many other new web applications, even some of the most complex ones, and manage to quickly find my way. It is clear to me that the site is painfully structured.

There’s plenty to like about Facebook, but here’s what I hate: because of the simplistic way Facebook positions ‘friends’ we aren’t connected to the people we really want to talk to – we’re connected to everyone we know. Maybe it’s my problem with how I use it, but by obfuscating the ability to tailor who I share with the level of dialogue, it tends toward the lowest common denominator.

The reality is that Facebook has buildings full of product managers, engineers, designers and so on that are all essentially working nonstop on one website, whereas the client typically has a limited budget, timeframe and pool of resources to draw from. This doesn’t mean that we cannot act on the inspirations sparked by Facebook, but it’s frustrating when you have to reduce client expectations based on certain practicalities of implementation.

Facebook states that its mission is to make the world a more open and connected place, yet this isn’t the exclusive domain of Facebook but a consequence of the open network it’s built on – the web. While social networks have of course made it easier for people to communicate online, Facebook is attempting to deeply integrate its closed, proprietary network into the fabric of the web. Connect, Social Plug-ins, OpenGraph, call it what you will, Facebook is a parasite, slowly suffocating the platform that hosts it. History dictates that monopolies – regardless of their size – ultimately collapse. Will Facebook become ‘too big to fail’? Will its demise bring the web down with it?

My dislike of Facebook doesn’t come from the perspective of having never used it. I joined the site relatively early in 2006. Over time, I found it became less valuable; a utility for procrastination. As the company sought rapid growth, its design moved away from encouraging users to create close personal networks towards openly sharing every aspect of their lives, with everybody and often unknowingly. The introduction of Beacon – where your activity on third-party sites could be tracked by Facebook – was a step in the wrong direction. This is a direction Facebook has aggressively pursued since, regardless of any pushback from members. I lost trust in the service, and deleted my account (it’s easier to do than many think).

Facebook has a culture of arrogance. It prides itself on its ‘move fast and break things’ attitude, but this is grossly inappropriate for organisation entrusted with the personal and private data of over 800million people. Mark Zuckerberg has strong views on privacy, and he’s forcing these onto members of his network; regardless of their own views, and often through questionable – possibly deceptive – design choices.

What I really hate about Facebook are the ever-changing privacy settings. To me, Facebook is a place where I keep in touch with my closest friends and family – and if it wasn’t for the fact it helped me keep in touch with family halfway around the world, it would have been deactivated a long time ago. The change that annoyed me most related to the image and profile privacy settings – I remember having to go in and set up new settings for each area I wanted to keep private. In my opinion, it isn’t for Facebook to decide that everything should be open – I think it should be the other way around and we have to opt-in, rather than opt-out. Luckily, I think that Facebook are moving in the right direction now. Although we can now post public posts if we want to, it’s easy to keep track of and simple to use and change if we so decide.

Say what you will about Facebook but no other social service has had as great an impact on our online presence as Facebook. It’s changed our behaviour from how we communicate and behave online to ‘like’ and ‘liking something’ now being a global thumbs-up term understood by the many. But the most important aspect is how it’s connected us. Every day more than 400million active users log on to check what their friends have been up to. As someone who’s lived abroad for nearly 12 years, having a service like Facebook where you can effortlessly keep in touch and stay up to date with what your friends back home are doing is invaluable.

In the beginning we added old acquaintances and friends but their updates weren’t always to our interest and a need to hide updates or remove friends altogether arose as a means to deal with newsfeed “spam”. But there is another side to the newsfeed. As much as Facebook has given each one of us a voice and a presence it’s also contributed to ‘life envy’. We log on to see what our friends have been up to, what interesting things have happened in their lives. It’s a fix that we’re after a couple of times a day. Most of us have found ourselves looking through photos from near and dear but also complete strangers. Never before have we known as much about people, both things we want to know and the updates we would prefer not to have seen.

Of course, you can’t blame Facebook. What company in the world would not want to have talented folks working for them, making their products better? The team from Made By Sofa have already done a sterling job on the Facebook iOS app. But at what cost? In Gowalla’s case, the service is being shut down. That product that was worked on for years, built by the passion of several individuals. Now it’s gone, as is so often the case in talent-only acquisitions.

Something about this feels inherently wrong to me. There’s no doubt that Facebook is doing some cool stuff and that its talent acquisitions have already paid huge dividends, but I can’t help but feel that Facebook is building its own web: a walled garden where all internet activity happens inside Facebook. Compare this to Google and you can’t help but feel that at least the latter gives back to the web. Google might be huge and a very big player in the space, but its products are part of the wider, open web; Facebook’s are only a part of its own all-encompassing world.

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